No More Perfect Podcast with Jill Savage
Join Jill Savage here on the No More Perfect Podcast as she talks about the messy, less-than-perfect, real stuff of life. Featuring hard-earned wisdom, well-known authors and speakers, inspiring messages, and stories of real families that must be told, the No More Perfect Podcast is designed to be both inspirational and practical. An author, speaker, and coach, Jill is the founder and former CEO of Hearts at Home a ministry that served moms for 24 years. She has been featured on Focus on the Family, Family Life Today Radio, and Dr. Gary Chapman’s Building Relationships shows. She is the author or co-author of fourteen books including Professionalizing Motherhood, No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Marriages (with her husband Mark), and her most recent release Empty Nest Full Life. All show notes can be found at www.JillSavage.org/podcast Have ideas for subjects you need to hear about or guests you'd love to see? Send all your suggestions to resources@jillsavage.org! Love the show? Please leave a review to help others find this encouragement!
No More Perfect Podcast with Jill Savage
How to Think About Differences Differently | Episode 266
Have you ever met someone who was not at all like you? Maybe their thinking, mannerisms, or outlook was so different from your own that you clashed or struggled to connect with them?
The old proverb, “birds of a feather flock together” is a classic because it’s true! Building relationships with people who share your interests, hobbies, opinions, and goals often feels easier than stepping outside your comfort zone.
However, here’s the truth: in any close relationship—whether with a friend, family member, or spouse—differences eventually show up.
It could be that one of you is a saver while the other is a spender, one of you is an early riser and the other a night owl, or even that one of you is an internal processor versus an external processor.
Today, we want to challenge you to think about these differences in your relationships, well, differently!
In this episode, you’ll hear:
- How to move from frustrated to fascinated
- Practical ways to avoid taking differences personally
- Helpful ways to reframe differences in your mind
- And more!
Learning how to work with our differences has helped us so much in our marriage and friendships. We hope this conversation can help you, too!
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/differences-differently-266
Check out our other resources:
- Mark and Jill’s Marriage Story
- Marriage Coaching
- Marriage 2.0 Intensives
- Speaking Schedule
- Book Mark and Jill to Speak
- Online Courses
- Books
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- Infidelity Recovery
- For Happy Marriages
- For Hurting Marriages
- For Marriages Where You’re the Only One Wanting to Get Help
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